regphobic-giratina:

If your aroness or aceness stems from dysphoria, you’re a valid aro or ace.

If your aroness or aceness stems from past trauma, you’re a valid aro or ace.

If your aroness or aceness is an integral part of who you are as a person, you’re a valid aro or ace.

If you have no idea what your aroness or aceness comes from, you’re a valid aro or ace.

I’m sorry I don’t make the rules.