Hey I have a question. Feel free to ignore me. Are you still considered an Asexual if you /want/ to have sex? Because all I’ve seen from people online is that they’re not that keen on it. (I’m still questioning) I feel like I might come under the ace spectrum simply because I don’t feel sexual attraction to people, but I’m not Indifferent to or repulsed by sex. Does that still make me ace?

threshie:

whelvenwings:

hey!!! not at all, questions are more than welcome, especially when theyā€™re asked so respectfully. thank you for that. ā¤

asexuality is just as simple as not feeling sexual attraction. if you donā€™t feel sexual attraction, then you are ace!

wanting to have sex, getting turned on, having a libido, and other feelings related to sex donā€™t affect whether or not you are ace. asexuality is interpersonal – itā€™s about whether you feel sexual attraction to other people. this is similar to other orientations. a person being bisexual doesnā€™t tell you how much they like/want/have sex, just who they are attracted to.

I hope that helps!!

Heyo, ace who has sex here. *raises hand* Iā€™m reblogging because this post is right ā€“ being asexual has to do with whether you feel sexual attraction, not whether or not you have sex. Youā€™re still ace if you have sex!

The best analogy Iā€™ve heard to describe being ace uses donuts:

Some folks might not want anything to do with donuts ā€“ donā€™t even want to think about someone else eating them. Some are indifferent ā€“ meh, donuts are okay. Might eat one with somebody they love to make them happy. And for some, donuts taste good, and theyā€™ll eat them because they taste good.

Nobody actually gets hungry for donuts or cannot resist a big box of them in the middle of the table, though.

This is awesome!

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celticpyro:

bransrath:

pain-and-missouri:

tilthat:

TIL Marine biologists are claiming there is a rare instance of non-human warfare happening between octopuses in the waters off the coast of Australia. The octopuses are fighting in large groups over territory and even using projectiles such as seashells to spit at enemies.

via reddit.com

Octopi are intense

I prefer octopedes

ā€œAnimals donā€™t go to war because theyā€™re cinnamon rolls unlike ebil humans uwuā€ Check-fucking-mate Linda, cephalopods are having trench warfare in the ocean.

Theyā€™re literally in the shell age

Soā€¦theyā€™re shelling each other?Ā 

*takes a long drag on a shitty cigarette* war is shell

Why isnā€™t anyone even bothering to mention the countless wounded soldiers of this cephalopod war? Many come back missing tentacles and eyes! Some even return home with a bad case ofā€¦shellshock

The comments are just as awesome as the article

J2 PittCon 2018 Gold Panel

sammyhale:

  • Jensen: I love Pittsburgh, I filmed a movie here.Ā 
  • Jared: I was out last night and saw this handsome African American man staring at me and Iā€™m like hey itā€™s pride week! And itā€™s Christian Keyes. Jensen:Ā Hey itā€™s pride week!
  • Fan to Jensen: So Mark Pellegrino slept with your wife, what if she had a babyā€¦ Jensen: As long as itā€™s not my kid!
  • Jared: Iā€™m restoring my first car. Jensen: Youā€™ve been repairing that since Iā€™ve known you and Iā€™ve never seen it!
  • Jensen: The writers started to explore the humorous side of Dean, but they bring the badass back, too.Ā 
  • Jensen: The harness was cinched so tight it was probably like a corset. When I saw it, I wasnā€™t overly pleased (possibly talking about the finale?)Ā 
  • Jared: Iā€™m a researcher like Sam. Jensen laughs at me because I read directions. He throws them away.Ā 
  • Jensen: When Iā€™m in Vancouver I can say what do I want? At home itā€™s not about me.Ā 
  • Jared: Iā€™m in a better head space when I read. The news can cause anxiety so I turn it off for a while. Reading allows him to get a little disconnected from the world.Ā 
  • Jensen: We were watching Scoobynatural (at Comic-Con) for the first time and Misha has this happy little kid expression and heā€™s like, this is so cool! They may want to do it again.
  • Jared on how they felt about Scoobynatural: Sometimes he and I have a private moment on set, or us and Misha, to say this is so cool, but rarely outside set like that viewing (when they watched the ep at SDCC).Ā 

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